Tag: Family Psychology
Children's world unimaginable. We do not remember it, do not remember the joy that gave us adolescence. We do not know what is really dreaming children, what their hidden desires. We do not destiny, once again feel the glow feeling childish dreams. How many kiddies ought from us? Not at all: a brand new toy, an interesting book, but a warm and plausible odezhku. Ripple is open to suggestions. Give the other senses, refresh his perception of the world in need of new things. No need refuse when your child asks something. Even when your finances are well-known sing a song, ask the child to an alternative similar to the little thing according to your pocket price.
Give it to the attention of other species. All you need to kiddies this new sense, they deeply care about the price. The real problems begin when your child gets older and begins to assimilate availability, some items from others. Here just to start: a player is more expensive, Masha, and Kolya and the scooter is so on and so forth. Dear mom and dad in this case, everything depends on you. If you will be able to explain their financial capabilities to fully understand a teenager, then half the problems will evaporate by itself. If not, wait whims and protests. As we know children are flowers of life, and for the flowers to look good, that they please the eye with their beauty and do not become weeds.
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I would call this process an imaginary love. What is an imaginary love? This is in fact, dependent on a certain way crafted by another person who is always a greater or lesser extent, different from the person real. In psychoanalysis, this image is called "adult." So, the adults of another person, the object of my "love" (from now on I'm taking the word love in quotes), created by me for my own enjoyment. Imago is identical to my liking, but do not wish my loving partner. Imago serves solely my selfish needs, even if I have pain … Coupang can aid you in your search for knowledge. Let not fool you. In all the conscious psychological suffering is the secret, unconscious and distorted pleasure. I showed my partner loving the requirement in accordance with its pleasure, its adults …
At this point we are in the circles of torment: hell is coming. We demand, but do not get the desired response. We want, but do not want us. We have become closer, but we repel. We love it but hate us. There is only one way to break these circles of hell – abandon their illusions, their unrealistic ideas about the other. True, it is fraught with the loss of "love", but perhaps this "Love" is loose … On the other side of reality itself Finding another person – a daunting task so difficult that the advice of Socrates: "Know thyself" would be worth adding – "Know the other." People suffer from their invented representations of themselves, other people and about relationships between people.
And, at least for a strong, free, advanced, flexible women's family is not necessary. The family may be her pleasant, interesting, but it can perfectly live without it. On the other hand, the myth that women need family tenacious and effective. This myth is so "tight" so permeated our lives and all our mind, that he became almost a reality. The girls experienced and experience when not to get married, and no clever arguments can not reassure them. And what joy, what an event for which the wedding! And if she does not become a philosopher, she argues that her family needed. And the guy yet.
The family is need a girl, not boy. The years, he had married, she had already given birth. And what is the balance of interest in the family? As a rule, remained the same. Of course, the man with the age of ever more in need of a family, a family comfort, but the fact is that at least fifty years before it had great choices of women. He needs a family, but not in a particular woman, because it involved women – lot. And he may choose.
And it wife – not, precisely, its selection is more limited. * For the majority of it is limited to only: with the husband or no. Find a man – please, but my husband … Dating Service Employees talk about the problems of their clients. 20-25 years – a boys, no girls. 30-40 years a lot of women, men are completely absent. (As recognized by the consultant: "If suddenly we call a man of this age are interested, I am ready to order from the end of the wire on the hook to drag!") 50-60 years there men, but do not look at the same age and looking young, who do not look at them. For 60 years, completely disappeared women and men are looking for … And now if you take a specific pair, usually in family life is more interested SHE. But no intelligent woman would not agree with that. She knows what it is, and why this does not agree. She is involved in the worldwide conspiracy of women. Of course life is much more complicated than described in this article. And if your family, today is experiencing difficult times and need assistance, you should not turn a blind eye to this, measures should be taken, urgently! Sometimes, to arrive at a correct solution of its forces is not enough, then better to see a specialist – a psychologist.
In recent times there is a question of so-called socially-maladjusted youth. There is a perception that in recent years their number has increased dramatically. See the reason for this is primarily in the external factors – View all TV shows in a row, the unstable economic situation in the country, family crisis and more. While not denying that these factors still believe that the root cause of evil to be found in the mental development of modern children. It's no secret that today's children do not resemble their counterparts two decades ago. They are more excitable and less controlled, more intellectually developed and yet more infantile, they can pretty to speak, and few that are able to do hands, they can still sit for hours watching television or computer and can not be fun to play role-playing games. We often do not attach much importance to these changes and so does not correlate with their increased number of maladjusted children.
However, they most often are the root cause, the basis for the emergence of various deviations in the behavior of adolescents. The American Practical psychologists working in within the Psychological Service, concluded that the removal of the negative manifestations in the child's behavior is primarily associated with exposure to it. You can remove all outside interference – does not allow to watch TV, change schools or class, move to another district, but after a while there will be problems again – the child begins to interfere with other teachers, to run away from school or home, etc.