Tag: as it grows
Everytime you have a particularly important decision you don’t know what to do. Give you turns and more turns to the different possibilities, with fear of making a mistake and thinking about the worst that could happen. So you’re stagnant, frustrated, without energy and wanting to decide once, right? However, there still, without being able to make a decision is this your case? Why is it so difficult for you to make decisions? These are some of the possible causes:-you think your decision is going to be permanent, forever. -Want to make the best decision, which ensures you a perfect result (and that implies the ability to read the future.) -You’re afraid to be wrong. -You influence what other people think and expect of you. Do you realize? I’m not surprised that you won’t be able to make decisions, you have many expectations and pressures, and you also need to predict the future! Here I leave you a few recommendations to help you make decisions: be honest with yourself, you already know what to do. Yes, already you know it. Another thing is that you want to do it.
The number of reasons that you have to do something is inversely proportional to the desire you have to do it. In summary, when one wants to do something, do not need reasons; If you give them to you it is because you’re not very convinced. It is possible to change your mind! (in most cases). This is something that I have always present, because the idea that our decisions are irrevocable generates, and rightly so, a lot of anxiety. Decisions don’t have to be in for life (as I said before, in most cases), and nothing happens if you change your mind later. What really matters is not the decision itself, but rather the consequences, the impact. That means that any decision would be good if you know how to deal with the consequences.