When a man in love, he does not notice anything, even the most blatant violations in his idyll, and about what the earth is not even thinking about it. But still, to direct the decision to marry must be a lot to think soberly and meaningfully. And what else should think and take care before making such a decision. First you need to think about: Age, previous ties chosen for the presence of children, finances, health, beliefs, attitudes toward family, sex, as well as relatives. Of course, your choice depends on your desire, as well as experience and knowledge, well if you have time to explore a partner. First of all, talk with friends, parents, Let them advise you and tell you about their desires and abilities. It must be remembered that when listening to advice is a clear distinction between who you really wish you happiness and love, and who only has some interest and greed.
If the people close to just give you the freedom, it speaks to their indifference. Care must be taken, what would your opinion and the opinion of relatives and friends to match, otherwise, you would be long and tedious to persuade and explain what is the best option for you. Here are some tips for finding a middle ground:-Always be honest and open. But what would you who did not speak, and the last word should not be for them, but for you, but listen to the advice is worth. -Give yourself some deadlines. Allow time for yourself and your heart, mind, that would completely understand that if the choice you made. In this case you should not rush themselves and their sensation.
"Do not be too categorical and unambiguous. -Look objectively at the whole situation. Compare all your senses and weigh all the pros and cons. -If doubt still have a place to be, find a third person who can adequately and objectively judge you. -Do not refuse professional help. If necessary, go to a psychologist.